becoming the one.
You say you want a healthy relationship, you want to find "The One"...
But do you even have a healthy relationship with yourself?
Do you hold yourself lovingly in all of the seasons of your life?
Do you live in devotion and love to The One within you?
If you cannot turn yourself on, how can your lover do so?
If you don't enjoy yourself, how can another do so?
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Become truly enamored with all that you are & you invite your lover to meet you there.
Extend your sensuality to yourself first - give yourself space to love & admire your body, to extend loving, erotic touch to your self ... & you'll know where to guide your lover when you meet them.
The constant searching for love by people pleasing fades away
The wondering if they like you is replaced with asking yourself if YOU like THEM.
When you meet your lover, notice:
Is being with together even more delicious than the love and devotion you give to yourself?
Does it just amplify the love that you already feel within?
Does it reflect clearly the magic that you already feel?
It all begins with you.